Jane Cohen Counseling
Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen, NLP & TimeLine Master Practitioner (619) 203-4412
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The Choice in Front of Us
This year has been challenging and we’re about to step into the New Year, with even more challenges ahead. Fundamental issues are confronting us. What is truth? What are lies? What is real? What is fake? Who has the power? What is power?
Q & A: Do Love Affairs Disrupt Teamwork Harmony?
Question: “Do love affairs disrupt the harmony of teamwork in an organization?”
Dr. Jane: It depends on what you mean by a “love affair.” An affair usually refers to a romantic/sexual relationship that is not meant to be long-term. For that reason, it is generally mainly about sexual attraction rather than emotional connection.
Getting to the Root of the Problem
Most of us have challenges in our lives — some may be small and some may be fairly significant. These challenges can lead to a great deal of stress. Maybe it’s a relationship problem or maybe you’re struggling financially. Maybe you feel conflicted about your career or maybe you have self-esteem issues that get in the way of you succeeding. Maybe you feel stuck, depressed, anxious…..
Why Don’t Couples Seek the Relationship Help They Need?
When couples aren’t motivated to seek help with their relationship problems, it’s generally because they are in a co-dependent relationship with each other. That means they are leaning on each other to compensate for unconscious, childhood limiting decisions* that leave them feeling not whole. They might, for example, have limiting decisions* that they are unlovable, not worthy of respect, are powerless, are on their own, can’t support themselves, or are not safe. They are leaning on their partner to, for example, make them feel lovable, worthy of respect, powerful, or safe by relating to them in certain expected ways or doing particular kinds of behaviors toward them.
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