by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Jul 19, 2018 | Codependency in Relationships, Healthy Relationships, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), NLP TimeLine
When couples aren’t motivated to seek help with their relationship problems, it’s generally because they are in a co-dependent relationship with each other. That means they are leaning on each other to compensate for unconscious, childhood limiting...
by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Feb 8, 2018 | Codependency in Relationships, Narcissism, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), NLP TimeLine
Signs of a narcissist: Charismatic Usually at the center of attention Weaves fantasies that people get caught up in Puts out sexual energy that feels addictive Never lets the person he/she is involved with get too emotionally close on the one hand, but also keeps them...
by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Apr 4, 2017 | Codependency in Relationships, Healthy Relationships, NLP TimeLine
The Dilemma A large percentage of the issues people bring to me have to do with their relationship problems. Being in relationship can be very challenging. They can offer deep fulfillment on many different levels, but they can also bring up some of the deepest...
by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Apr 1, 2017 | Healthy Relationships
Fixed-Role Relationships In my experience many people think in order to be in relationship and have the intimacy they desire, they have to compromise or give up parts of themselves. Relationships people form that are based on fixed roles is the main reason many people...
by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Mar 25, 2017 | Healthy Relationships
What does passion mean to you? It can mean a lot of different things to different people: sexual passion, emotional passion, religious passion, passion about values… Passion is energy — uncontrolled, powerful energy, from the depths of our being. It is...
by Dr. Jane Ilene Cohen | Mar 19, 2017 | Healthy Relationships, Narcissism
People with the defense system of narcissism are usually in relationship with those who have a lot of self-hate. It is an interlocking emotional defense system* that both sides of the equation are holding in place. Below are excerpts of comments I said to two clients...
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